Personal Reflection: Aggressive Humor

This week for our lecture we discussed aggressive forms of humor! One that stood out to me the most is 'assertiveness' because it is a form of aggressive humor that I use and experience a lot.

Assertiveness belongs to the constructive dimension of aggressive communication. A positive form of communication, assertiveness represents a response that allows a person to behave in a certain manner, respecting their owns interests and expressing their feelings without fear while also respecting other individuals.

One of my best friend's little sister, Cheyanne, and I utilize assertiveness all of the time in our communication with each other. Cheyanne and I have known each other for almost fifteen years now and our relationship is like that of a big and little sister. We often will respond to each other in conversation with insults or brash comebacks. For example: the last time I saw Cheyanne was about two weeks ago at a Shrek Trivia night in Austin. She announced to the table that she needed to go to the restroom and as she was walking away she turned back to look at us and said, "Good luck, losers!" and I 'flipped the bird' at her and she responded by blowing me a kiss.

To those unaware of our relationship to each other and the history we have with each other, they may believe that we are insulting each other or we are acting hostile towards one another. But in reality, it is just our way of expressing our humor and love for each other!🤣💚

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